Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about coaching, matchmaking, Dating Clarity Sessions and Dating Profile Positioning, answered in one place.

Coaching & Training

Register interest in the LifeCoachOla training or coaching programme that fits where you are now.

What coaching and training options are available?

There are three current routes: the free live From Dating to Commitment training, the 6-Week Commitment-Ready Dating Challenge, and the 6-month Qualify Before You Emote™ Coaching Programme.

How much is the 6-Week Commitment-Ready Dating Challenge?

The launch investment is €99. The standard investment is €299. There is no instalment plan for the challenge.

How much is the Qualify Before You Emote™ Coaching Programme?

The six-month programme is €3,000 paid in full. Payment options are 2 payments of €1,550, totalling €3,100, or 3 payments of €1,100, totalling €3,300.

What happens after I register my interest?

You receive a confirmation email from Clara in Client Services. There is no automatic call to book. The LifeCoachOla team will contact you when the training date is announced or the programme you selected opens.

Do the programmes guarantee a relationship?

No. No coaching programme can guarantee another person's behaviour or a relationship outcome. The programmes are designed to improve your dating strategy, standards, decision-making and ability to recognise commitment-ready partners.

Dating Clarity Session

A private 45-minute session with Ola on one specific situation.

What is a Dating Clarity Session?

It is a private 45-minute session with Ola focused on one specific dating or relationship situation. You bring the situation you cannot make sense of, and Ola gives you a personalised assessment, honest clarity, and practical next steps you can act on straight away.

How much is it and how do I book?

The session is €500 and paid in full at the time of booking. You book directly through Ola's booking calendar, which handles both the scheduling and the payment in one step. There is no application process for this session.

How long is the session?

45 minutes, one-to-one with Ola. The duration is confirmed on the booking calendar when you choose your time.

Is this the same as coaching?

No. Coaching is a longer programme that changes patterns over months and requires an application. A Dating Clarity Session is a single, focused conversation about one situation. Many women use it when they need an answer now rather than a full programme.

Can I reschedule or cancel?

No. All payments are final and non-refundable, and bookings cannot be cancelled, transferred or rescheduled once confirmed. Arriving late will reduce the remaining session time, and no-shows and unused session time are non-refundable. Please choose a time you are certain you can keep. Nothing in the terms limits any statutory consumer rights that cannot legally be excluded.

What should I bring to the session?

One specific situation and any context that helps: what happened, what you have already tried, and what outcome you actually want. The more focused you are, the more you will get from the 45 minutes.

Matchmaking

Personal assessment, sourcing and screened matches based on your preferences.

Who is the matchmaking service for?

Serious, relationship-minded adults. Women and men can apply to the free dating pool and may be considered when they fit a private client's requirements. Paid matchmaking clients receive a structured, hands-on search and screened matches sourced against their preferences, values, cultural requirements, relationship goals and dealbreakers.

What happens after I pay?

Once your payment is confirmed, Ola reviews the intake form and preferences you already submitted, clarifies anything that needs more detail, and begins the personal assessment, search and screening process. You are kept informed as the work progresses.

How are matches chosen?

Every potential match is assessed personally against your stated values, dealbreakers and relationship goals, then screened before being put forward. Nothing is automated and nothing is sent to you in bulk. Screened matches are presented deliberately and one at a time.

How are screened matches presented?

Matches are sourced and screened against your stated preferences. They are presented progressively during your service period, beginning with the first match targeted within six weeks. Contact details are shared only when both people agree to connect.

What is included in each matchmaking package?

Standard Matchmaking is €2,999 for three months, with two screened matches guaranteed and up to four in total. Priority Matchmaking is €5,999 for six months, with five screened matches guaranteed and up to eight in total, plus priority sourcing and support. The first screened match is targeted within six weeks, with the remaining matches presented progressively during the service period.

What if someone declines a proposed match?

Either person may decline without giving a reason. That is part of the consent-based approach. A declined match does not count against your guaranteed or maximum number of screened matches.

What is Men's Priority Access?

It is the €5,999 paid route for men who want a proactive private search rather than waiting in the free pool. It includes six months of personal assessment and targeted sourcing, five screened matches guaranteed and up to eight in total, the first match targeted within six weeks, consent before contact details are shared, and priority support from Ola.

Is the Dating Pool really free?

Yes. Women and men aged 18 and over can apply without paying. Your complete profile is reviewed and you may be contacted when you fit a private client's requirements. Nothing is shared without your consent, and joining does not guarantee a match.

How do privacy and data deletion work?

Your information is used solely for screening and delivering the service, and is never sold to third parties. You may request complete deletion of your personal data at any time by emailing info@lifecoachola.ie. Deletion requests are processed within 30 days.

Dating Profile Positioning

Strategy and personalised judgement applied to how you show up.

What does this service actually do?

It fixes how you are being read. Ola assesses your profile as a whole, works out why it is attracting the wrong matches or the wrong conversations, and rebuilds it around your personality, values and relationship goals so it filters unsuitable matches earlier.

What is included in Dating Profile Positioning?

Ola reviews your profile strategy as a whole, including your written profile, photo selection and sequencing, settings, dealbreakers and how your profile positions you for the relationship you want. The current service scope and price are shown on the Dating Profile Positioning page before you submit your details.

What is the process?

Choose your package, complete the quick registration and continue to payment. Once payment is confirmed, our team will contact you for the full profile intake before the assessment begins.

Which apps does this cover?

Any of the mainstream dating apps you are actively using. Tell Ola which ones on your intake form and she will tailor the strategy to how each one actually surfaces profiles.

Is this just rewriting my profile text for me?

No. This is strategy and judgement, not copywriting. The point is deciding what to say, what to leave out, which photos to lead with and in what order, so that the right people recognise themselves and the wrong ones filter themselves out.

Does Dating Profile Positioning include ongoing messaging support?

The €299 Dating Profile Positioning package does not include ongoing messaging support. If you want help after the profile is rebuilt, the €599 Positioning + Messaging Support package adds a personalised conversation strategy, review of real conversations and screenshots, and two weeks of direct text support, Monday to Friday.

Still have a question?

If your question is not answered here, send it to LifeCoachOla and Ola or a member of the team will come back to you.