From Dating to Commitment

I see pretty women make this mistake on dating apps all the time.

You are beautiful in real life, so you upload pictures where you look beautiful, fill out a few prompts with answers that sound cute or interesting and expect the men you want to start matching with you.

Then you get on the app and you are getting plenty of likes from men you do not want, while the men you do want are not matching with you or are not doing much once they do.

And you are thinking, “I know I'm fine AF. Why aren't the men I want acting like it?”

Because being beautiful can get a man's attention.

But you want to create preference.

Preference is when a man has plenty of beautiful women to choose from and still says, “Nah, I want HER.”

The men you want are used to seeing beautiful women. So being another beautiful woman on a dating app is not enough.

You chose your pictures because you looked good in them and answered your prompts based on what you thought sounded cute or interesting.

But none of that means your profile is giving the man you want a reason to want you.

And when a man actually prefers you, he behaves differently.

He reads every little word on your profile and uses what he learns to start the conversation.

He messages you something thoughtful and asks you questions that light you up.

And instead of messaging you for a week, he asks you on a date within a couple of days.

I do not want you opening a dating app to 50 likes from men you do not even want.

I want the men you want reading every little word on your profile, sending you thoughtful messages and thinking, “I need to meet her.”

That is the difference between being pretty on a dating app and creating preference.

And that is one of the things I am teaching inside my free From Dating to Commitment training.